Sitting by myself in the empty house waiting for the moving trucks to arrive with all of our stuff, I had a realization. “I don’t want to live here.” At the time I thought it was just stress. Leaving a home I adored, the hassle of moving in general, etc.
But the feeling stayed — not always on the surface but it was there. Three years later we moved again — into a house that was more “us.”
People ask if I thought moving there in the first place was a mistake.
Read the Post→It’s despicable and horrendous that Facebook allowed Cambridge Analytica to exploit user information for such nefarious purposes. If you don’t know what I’m referring to you can read about it here. The only upside to the whole disaster is that finally, after many years of waffling, the decision to delete my account was easy.
The freedom is close to intoxicating.
Read the Post→Nearly every time I debrief an assessment with a client and share information about a particular trait that’s been uncovered, I hear something on the order of “Yeah, but everybody feels that way about (fill in the blank.)” The person I’m working with naturally assumes that everyone feels, for example, that it’s “always important to do your best work.”
Read the Post→Each new year I choose three words to guide the thoughts and actions for the year. This process has been significantly more useful than making a New Year’s Resolution. Of course, anything is more useful than a New Year’s Resolution since most are abandoned before Valentine’s Day
Read the Post→I’m a coach and have hired many coaches to help me, so I’m qualified to share with you some red flags. If I found any of these six situations to be true I’d keep looking.
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